[nthnoak]

Yeah my wife and cards don't really add up either. She's okay with it sometimes, but if we get into an argument, she brings it up every time. So I have cut my spending by quite a bit which is a good thing. But I won't stop buying them, it's my hobby and my choice. You just have to have a master plan of funneling unseen money into a different bank account she doesn't know about. Then have that account linked to PayPal. Then you can buy all you want as long as you get to the mailbox before she does. And if you don't, you can just say its a card you traded for lol.