[nemesis77777]

Feel free to shout me down here, but seriously dude, you dont need to update if nothing happened. Its all well and good to continue to say that a PM would have been awesome, or an explanation, but if something bad happens inside peoples life outside of cards, trust me bits of cardboard are the last thing youre thinking of. Its a hard reality to imagine that cards might not actually be that important, i know, lol, but it does happen.

I dont write this to sound condescending, or to be offensive either - but its hard to place yourself in someones shoes until bad stuff happens to you (which id never wish on anybody) but if you were in his shoes, and you had stuff going on, and family members in strife, i put it to ANYONE, that cards are generally a long way from your mind when these things crop up.

I may sound bias having just come back from an exodus of my own, but ive let entire trades slide in the past when people have had problems, so its not all one way traffic. Im just hoping that common sense comes to forefront here - mail DOES get lost, and its all very easy to just jump on someone and point fingers, but sometimes s**t just happens.

Steve.