[tobiasstephan]

I explained why I got banned on sites already. It was not because I was a bad trader. Also why would I lie once again? This is really pathetic and this is why I am never on Beckett, ever since this site changed it has never been the same. I won't bother scanning the package, believe me or not I don't care, it won't make a difference apparently I am the bad guy because the post office screwed up...all you need to know is that phildo your card is on the way....AGAIN

[hockeyguy402]

ok im not going to comment on this anymore

[thecooker24]

tobiasstephan Wrote:I explained why I got banned on sites already. It was not because I was a bad trader. Also why would I lie once again? This is really pathetic and this is why I am never on Beckett, ever since this site changed it has never been the same. I won't bother scanning the package, believe me or not I don't care, it won't make a difference apparently I am the bad guy because the post office screwed up...all you need to know is that phildo your card is on the way....AGAIN

How do you want people here to feel about you then? Yo don't have to be the bad guy. It may help you clear your name if you would only scan the package as proof. You refusing to do it only leads people to believe that you were up to something.

[jbmmadman]

thecooker24 Wrote:

tobiasstephan Wrote:I explained why I got banned on sites already. It was not because I was a bad trader. Also why would I lie once again? This is really pathetic and this is why I am never on Beckett, ever since this site changed it has never been the same. I won't bother scanning the package, believe me or not I don't care, it won't make a difference apparently I am the bad guy because the post office screwed up...all you need to know is that phildo your card is on the way....AGAIN

How do you want people here to feel about you then? Yo don't have to be the bad guy. It may help you clear your name if you would only scan the package as proof. You refusing to do it only leads people to believe that you were up to something.

I know the answer to that: He's got principles, we should all take him for his word because he's explained why he's been banned at the other sites already.

Fact of the matter is tobiasstephan... if this happened the way you say it did, and I were in your shoes, I'd scan that package just to prove my case. Then I've let everyone know it truly wasn't my fault. Everyone knows the PO screws up from time to time, and in the event that you may have not addressed it correctly, the OP would completely understand, life happens, mistakes occur. The end result is all that matters as long as you were true to your word.

I'm guessing your reluctance to scan the envelope that was allegedly returned to you is because you are not being honest and are merely trying to cover up a big blunder on your part. I think you're running out of trading sites to go to, I'd make good on this deal if I were you.

now, with all that being said, it's up to you to just do the right thing. If you feel we don't deserve to see the envelope the way it was returned to you, at least do the OP the courtesy and scan it and pm him the scan and ask him to keep it confidential. Or...come clean to him in a pm and let him know what your intentions are, but dude, be a man and take care of your business. Treat other traders the way you want to be treated and there won't be any problems....

[joexbondo]

Just to add my two cents on the subject, I waited over a couple weeks to get my end of a trade from a member and had to post on a few threads before i finally got my cards, now that doesn't make this person a bad trader in the least, as sometimes things happen, just keep this in mind when bashing others for slow shipping.  If I called out everyone Ive ever gotten a lite package from, i would have 50% less trade partners

[phildo37]

joexbondo Wrote:Just to add my two cents on the subject, I waited over a couple weeks to get my end of a trade from a member and had to post on a few threads before i finally got my cards, now that doesn't make this person a bad trader in the least, as sometimes things happen, just keep this in mind when bashing others for slow shipping. If I called out everyone Ive ever gotten a lite package from, i would have 50% less trade partners

and I'm right there with you... I am the first to admit I am probably one of the slower shippers. Work gets in the way, and I can't always make it to the post office when I need to, but I always send out my cards.

I was (again, admittedly) slow to ship out my end of the trade... so figure it was 7-10 days behind schedule... then, because I always give others the benefit of the doubt since I'm slow, and got busy with work, it took me a while to get around to remembering and realizing I didn't have my end of the deal..

...figure we're going on two months now... for a two-way threads Draper and some UPD Exclusive.. for some 09-10 OPC Stars cards. Not sure you can get much lower end than that...

...principles...

[steen101984]

jbmmadman Wrote:

hockeyguy402 Wrote:send him his cards tobiasstaphan

yeah, you really should step back and not get involved...

jbmmadman i agree with your points in every way but what gives you the right to post on the topic and not hockeyguy402? I realize you have been on these boards awhile and everything but he has an opinion as well and just because he is new doesnt give him any less right. This post is just ignorant.

[hockeyguy402]

thaanks for your comment steen i was thinking that same thing....

[hockeyguy402]

I hope your cards arrive soon phildo!

[hockeyguy402]

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