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warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
#1

warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
This seller clearly targets and enjoys bullying female sports collectors.

eBay buyer jjhjac100 purchased seven items from my wife at .50 shipping each due to combined shipping, harassed her repeatedly to reduce shipping even more AFTER purchasing the items, then hit her feedback and taunted her even though she haad given him further shipping discounts.

http://stores.ebay.ph/Clayton-Cards/Foot...34.c0.m322

list of personally banned eBay users you may want to avoid, Cranes509 , ronrob5
#2

RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
(08-13-2014, 04:02 PM)GnC_Fricker Wrote: This seller clearly targets and enjoys bullying female sports collectors.

eBay buyer jjhjac100 purchased seven items from my wife at .50 shipping each due to combined shipping, harassed her repeatedly to reduce shipping even more AFTER purchasing the items, then hit her feedback and taunted her even though she haad given him further shipping discounts.

http://stores.ebay.ph/Clayton-Cards/Foot...34.c0.m322
Wow, what a low-life scumbag.
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RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
Must be the reason I will only sell or buy within the U.S. Sorry to your wife for there being tools like this out there.
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#4

RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
Maybe I am missing something, aside from the seller being your wife, how is it that this buyer is specifically taunting females. It sounds like he was just trying to get lower shipping costs, and he made a fuss and ultimately wasn't pleased so he left negative feedback. I don't see any reason to believe this had anything to do with the gender of the person selling the cards. After all, how would he have know the seller was female?
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#5

RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
Wow very sorry. That's why I am half skeptical of dealing with collectors over the net.
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RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
(08-13-2014, 05:41 PM)djohn Wrote: Maybe I am missing something, aside from the seller being your wife, how is it that this buyer is specifically taunting females. It sounds like he was just trying to get lower shipping costs, and he made a fuss and ultimately wasn't pleased so he left negative feedback. I don't see any reason to believe this had anything to do with the gender of the person selling the cards. After all, how would he have know the seller was female?
Agreed.
How would he know, unless she advertises that she's a woman? If her eBay name is CardGirl, or SportsBabe, might want to think about changing to a non gender name, if you think someone is specifically targeting female sports card collectors/sellers.

Also, coming on here out of the blue and 'warning' us? I don't remember seeing you in the last few years ... (And I've been here a lot over that time) ... What would make you think that slandering someone, that we don't know, would make us believe you, someone that we don't know? Maybe if we had a long standing history with you, then we could trust what you're saying is even true.

Sorry if your wife is having problems with a seller, but complain to eBay.
That might actually accomplish something. Warning us? That won't do much. IMO.
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RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
Well, according to ebay, the last time he left a negative was to a seller three days ago, who he purchased 9 items from, and it was due to corner damage from apparent poor packaging. Same seller also received one neutral and the rest were positive. I only went back about 11 pages of feedback he's left so unless it's before that I don't know. And your feedback is at 100%.

Looks like you're a case breaker or something. My guess is this is a result of some personal beef but could be wrong.
#8

RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers


There was considerably more said through message exchange. Not arguing a case as much as offering a warning to anyone who would choose to avoid such a person. he knew she was female because of her store profile picture, her signature in her messages, and her return address.





If you are somehow enraged because I offered a warning concerning someone like this, nobody is stopping you from buying up all of his product is it please you.

I'm sure anyone with a Daughter or Wife that also collects appreciated the warning. If you are somehow offended, by all means, purchase everything he has.



list of personally banned eBay users you may want to avoid, Cranes509 , ronrob5
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RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
(08-13-2014, 08:00 PM)GnC_Fricker Wrote: If you are somehow enraged because I offered a warning concerning someone like this, nobody is stopping you from buying up all of his product is it please you.
I'm sure anyone with a Daughter or Wife that also collects appreciated the warning. If you are somehow offended, by all means, purchase everything he has.
That's the problem with the Internet. Some people over-react and read way too much into things. (Perhaps, you did that with the ebayer your are warning us about? ...Just saying)
I'm am far from enraged because of your warning. I'm just skeptical of anyone coming into a forum where you're not well known, accusing someone, that we don't know, of doing something (allegedly) purposely hateful/spiteful to your wife, who we also don't know ... pertaining to a business matter that we had no knowledge about. Pretty clear cut and sound, from where I'm typing. In fact sounds like you're the one a little enraged ... And rightly so, since your loved one was wronged.
But why tell us?
I happen to have a wife and 3 daughters, and I really appreciate you warning me about their safety in a 'needle in a haystack' chance of them ever buying or selling anything that the alleged misogynist has for sale. Thanks for your concern, but again, I think complaining to EBay would be more efficacious!

Just to help you understand my skepticism......
Okay, so hypothetically.... If I were to run into a crowded room of people I never met, talked to, or had any prior association with, and warned them to lock up their loved ones because a guy they don't know, was harassing my wife, who they also, never met ... Lets just say that in all likelihood, I wouldn't be surprised if a uniformed escort service was called to the party to have me removed peacfully.
Now same situation, except I live in the neighborhood, see these people at local bars, restaurants, temples, churches, work-places, etc. walk the dog, chit-chat about the weather, etc. and then go to that very same party with the very same problem, everyone would be overly sympathetic, and there would be no need for a Peace Officer. Do you see?

Now, I'm no cop, nor do I play one on TV, and nobody here deputized me, either, so if I'm a little off base, I apologize to you and the rest of the forum.
And please don't judge the rest of the forum by my response. Hang out, get to know us and then if you ever have a similar problem, I know I'd be 1000x more sympathetic ... But that being said, my 'tell eBay' advice might be the same Smile
(08-13-2014, 10:58 PM)hckydv7 Wrote: That buyer did the same thing to me a couple of years ago-- and I am a guy. Was rude, wanted a bigger shipping discount. would not give it to him b/c he was so rude. I thought 2.50 for first one plus .25 was reasonable.
when he bid on the item he agreed to that combined shipping rate -- kindra rude on his part to be a jerk and get it lowered.
Okay, so maybe he IS a huge jerk, but he's not purposely targeting women, he's an equal opportunity jerk.
So what did we discover today? He's not necessarily a misogynist. He's just cheap and rude.
His sullied image is getting better with that questionable bit of positive spin. Smile
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RE: warning to female sports card collectors/sellers
I sent 1 email that stated:
Would it be possible to get a discount on that shipping charge, $8.95 is a little bit excessive for 13 cards.
Left this Positive FeedBack :Super Nice Card,not so nice Shipping Charges, Excessive OverCharging????????????

Charged $6.50 for 7 oz package.

Then I received this Email which against Ebay Policy to begin with:I like how I discounted your shipping even further and you still said something but you charge 5 cents more for shipping for you items and are fully aware that it is not just postage that you are paying for with shipping. You will be blocked by all I know the people I know that sell sports cards on Ebay and there will be a nice shout out to you on breakerstv and you'll be added to the blowoutcard's and beckett forums just to identify buyers like you. Good day!

-Courtney
Dear frickercn12,

ME: First, You charged way over what any supplies you used, cost w/7oz package that cost you all of $3.00 to ship. Second, I don't charge more than you if you read the Ad , It Clearly States $3.00 Flat Rate all orders less than $10.00 and Free over $10, which means that when I ship 7 cards the cost is either $3.00 of Free (depending on total) not you rate of $6.50. On the Order you just shipped to me, I would be shipping the same thing for Free. Third, it is because of sellers like you who overcharge on shipping that Ebay instituted the policy of charging all sellers 9% on the shipping charge. Last, but not least, Since you are obviously some kind of Genius and know all about me and have informed me that you intent to Slander my name and business with everyone you can then let this message stand as notice that per you own admission (You will be blocked by all I know the people I know that sell sports cards on Ebay and there will be a nice shout out to you on breakerstv and you'll be added to the blowoutcard's and beckett forums just to identify buyers like you.) and with Malice and Forethought that you intend to commit the Act of Slander (libel) and intend it Defame my Name and or Business with enties that you neither Own or have a controlling interest in(false statements that have been published or communicated to a third party) and that such Email message will be used as Evidence Hence Forth. Defamation of character can be committed by verbal statements (slander) or written statements (libel).
ThemBig Grinear jjhjac100,

Ah but slander would have to be false wouldn't it? Since I intend only to verbally communicate my exact encounter with you it could not be considered slander in the least bit. Libel works the same way genius and again, just like the BBB I am allowed to write exactly what happened between you and I complementary of the 1st amendment. Since I do not INTEND to KNOWINGLY say or publish anything other than the truth I direct you to forward all further complaints to my business' attorney/partner/husband. Please tell me more about this slander and libel though....

- frickercn12
MeBig Grinear frickercn12,

I will, I bet you had to look all that up, Huh, since it took you so long to respond. Fact #1, Read Your User Agreement, You sent a threatening and intimidating email in response to a feedback which is against Ebay policy. Fact # 2, These are your Opinions, not Facts. You don't me or anything about me but somehow you managed to work what kind of Buyer and or Seller I am, Amazing, you must have a 150 IQ and by the way Representation of a Officer of the Court is a Crime, so what is his Attorney # and Barr Registration State?
ThemBig Grinear jjhjac100,

My specific issue with you is that I cut you a deal I don't offer to anyone else and you still wanted more despite me responding to you in a reasonable amount of time, and shipping your items within 12 hours that is all, but you are the one insulting and bullying a female through messages. Like I said, doesn't matter if it is an opinion or fact I am allowed to say or publish anything I please so long as I don't know it to be false and your actions say that it is true.
MEBig Grinear frickercn12,

You started this conversation because you didn't like the rating you got on shipping charges and starting acting like a 5 year old throwing a fit, and I don't care if you are female or, you should have kept you thoughts to yourself. Whatever issues you have is your problem and you need to put them aside and move on. This is Business, it is not Personal and you should consider that before you send a customer an Email?

- jjhjac100
ThemBig Grinear jjhjac100,

I just hope one day you have to deal with someone just like you. :-)

- frickercn12
MEBig Grinear frickercn12,

I do everyday, they are called Customers, and I would never send a message stating that I am going to trash your name or business, especially to someone like myself who spends thousands per month on sports that you could have had a piece of but you choose to let your emotions control your actions thereby it will cost you in the long run, so let me put it in a language your generation understands, WHATEVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck in the Future, you are going to need it, and oh by the way, my IQ is 138 which is "Borderline Genius".

- jjhjac100
ThemBig Grinear jjhjac100,

I don't want your money or business I don't need it and neither do a lot of the people that just copy and paste people's "block" lists on these forums. Good luck to you as well.

- frickercn12
MEBig Grinear frickercn12,

I don't know what I will do if I can't get my cards from people you know EBAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Here , let me put it Southern Style for you, SHUT YOUR PIE HOLE!!!!! and move on.

- jjhjac100
ThemBig Grinear jjhjac100,

Turns out you have loads of money with your .99 cent buys and we should all bow down to your excellence like I said I do know tons of people in this business Beckett is already commenting on our most recent entry and oh I just located one of your buyers on my breaking channel and that's only one of the few I notice because most of them I can't see so I'd say odds are excellent your buyers are also on my breaks. By the way Mr. Southern, I noticed you should probably stay away from that pie you are speaking of.



- frickercn12
MeBig Grinear frickercn12,

Post all you want , you are just another in a long line of Dumba** people who don't know when to shut the F**k up!!!!!!!!!!!!

- jjhjac100

So, Judge for yourself Who's is Harassing Who, This is a Prime Example of Very Poor Customer Service, and it looks like these two have a Communication Problem between them or they both just like to lie and yes it is Slander. The bottom line is that whether it is a he , she or it does not matter, there should have been no Communication in regards to the Feedback! Still waiting on that Attorney # & Barr State?

PS: Thanks for the extra Business you generated for me, I got 6 New Customers and sold $104.50 in Product minutes after you Posted!!!!!!









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