(01-21-2013 07:36 PM)a2coupe2a Wrote: Did a trade with a member here who insisted that I send my cards first. I had no problem doing so because it was a fairly low value trade.
I sent all of my cards out on the 8th with tracking and notice on the 11th that the package is showing to be "Undeliverable as Addressed". I write the member i did the trade with on the 14th and he tells me that he "forgot to update his address" and that he would send my card out.
Since then i wrote more then once asking if his mail was forwarded to his new address which is what usps suggested to me. He did not respond until i posted about it in one of his threads and then said that it is not forwarded.
Long story short it is now the 21st and i have no tracking from the member, no updates from usps, and im out a few cards. I tend to be very patient with trades but im starting to get irritated.
I understand things come up but if you are going to insist that a member sends first then maybe make sure your information is correct. Also if you tell people you will send stuff out multiple times maybe you should... send stuff out.
What do you guys think is the best way to go about handling this?
(01-21-2013 08:32 PM)a2coupe2a Wrote: I dont think you understand. He hasnt shipped them out.. he has told me 3 different times on 3 different days he would and has yet to do so. I have been incredibly patient through this whole process. Im not tossing the guy under the bus im just trying to figure out the best way to deal with this.
But i like how you try to spin it in a way that makes me look like the impatient one. Do me a favor and dont trade with me in the future. Its idiots like you that give this place a bad name.
(01-21-2013 07:36 PM)a2coupe2a Wrote: What do you guys think is the best way to go about handling this?