(12-26-2011 09:53 PM)hellsbells Wrote: I agree about the fear of retaliatory feedback, also don't want to ruin someone's rep over a minor issue (if it is major, I will contact them).
Also, if someone is checking their feedback regularly and have 5.00 then the will know exactly who dinged them. (even if it is not a negative.)
CEO has a good point about the FB staying in "limbo" forever. So that would not work.
I figure once I make a good reputation on here, then I won't have to worry about bad marks from an unreasonable trader, but for now, I do.
On the bay, I hate the sellers that say they will leave feedback once I leave them a positive - if I am aware of it, I won't buy from them. If I have already bought, then I won't leave them FB at all. I always leave feedback promptly for buyers on the bay - regardless of whether I have received pos FB from them (usually leave it before I ship, since I have received their payment).
On here, I tried to send it quickly, until the FB problems (still having problems on some of them, but have left most).
I know that the OP and a few of the responders on here have traded with me - please let me know if I am one of those that you were not happy with.
(12-26-2011 10:01 PM)Jakelovescards Wrote: I love this site and most of the people on here. In my opinion tribe, you are one of my favorite traders. I would back you as a trader any day any time. As I would most of the traders on here. On a site where reputation is so important I wish there was a way to fix this issue, but it looks like they can't.
(12-27-2011 01:21 AM)giants1957 Wrote: like the old saying.......theres always one bad apple to spoil it.....my first trade........bam got a negative
(12-27-2011 09:27 AM)exposfan09 Wrote: Just some simple communication can really solve a lot of problems.
(12-27-2011 09:21 AM)ceocards Wrote: To be fair - backing out of an accepted trade is probably worthy of a neg - regardless of the reason. If anything, the neg that was left in retaliation is exactly what this thread is about.
(12-27-2011 10:12 AM)jd2k2003 Wrote: I agree, I'm in the middle of a trade now and am unable to find a card I had entered in the organize. Just waiting to hear back from the person but It's been 3 days. With the Holiday's it's understandable.
I'm new as well so trying to keep a good communication going with them through comments.